10 marudzi evanoshamwaridzana. Recidivist? Muchengetedzi musikana? Kana muchinda nedatya? Uri mudiwa werudzii?

Muhukama hwepfungwa, zvichienderana nemuenzaniso wakasarudzwa, tinogona kuona, kudoma uye kutsanangura kubva kune vashoma kusvika kune gumi nemaviri emhando dzevadyidzani uye nemabasa avanotora muhukama hunovabata uye kuona kuti vachataridzika sei. Dzidza nezve gumi anonyanya kufarirwa marudzi eshamwari uye tsvaga kuti iwe nemumwe wako ndimi ani.

Kuvaziva kunokubvumira kuti uone rudzi rwako uye rudzi rwemumwe wako (kana uine imwe) uye, kana zvichidiwa, tanga nzira yekushandura kune rudzi rwaunoda, nokuti kunyange izvi zvingasava nyore, kuchinja kwakadaro kunogoneka. - zvinongotora maturusi akakodzera uye nguva, mubairo unokodzera kenduru: hukama hune hutano, hwakakura uye hune rudo.

Kuti rugwaro rurambe ruchienderana uye ruchinyorwa, ndichanyora nezve vadyidzani vachishandisa izwi rekuti shamwari, asi richashanda kune vese varume nevakadzi, nekuti tsananguro yemuenzaniso ndeyepasi rose uye inoshanda kune vese vakadzi.

I. Shamwari (mudiwa)

Mhando yekutanga ingori mudiwa - mudiwa akakura asingapindi mune mamwe mabasa panguva yehukama. Hunhu hwemhando iyi hunogona kukamurwa kuita nhanho mbiri. Zvaasingaite muhukama uye zvaanoita:

1. Chii chaasingaite? Haadzidzisi mumwe wake nekudzidzisa, kupa zano regoridhe, uye nehanya zvakanyanya nezvake. Haasi mwanasikana, kureva kuti haakumbiri kubvuma, kubvumirwa, kubvuma uye haakumbiri rudo. Haasi bhosi - haapi mirairo, uye haaoni hukama sekutsinhana kwezvido - zvemari, zvepabonde, zvevabereki, nezvimwewo. Haasiwo mudzidzisi (mumwe munhu mukuru muukama); mudzidzi (akaderera); haasiwo shamwari yedoro (asexual); kana sisita (ane hanya netsika).
2. Anoita sei uye ndiani ari muhukama? Iye mudiwa akaenzana, shamwari uye mudiwa akakungurutswa mune imwe. Ane mutsa, anobvuma, anotsigira uye anobatsira. Anotaura chokwadi pasinei nezvingaitika, asi panguva imwe cheteyo anongwarira pakutaura. Haaturidzi zvaanonzwa uye haaverenge pfungwa dzemumwe wake, asi anokumbira tsananguro. Anotsanangura, anonangidzira pachokwadi, uye anotaura nezvezvinhu chaizvo pane kungotaurawo zvako. Anogadzirisa matambudziko, kwete kuatsvaira pasi pegumbo. Haatongi mumwe wake, anongotaura nezvemaitiro ake (panzvimbo pekuti “haundide” anoti “nezuro pawakabuda mumba hauna kutaura zvakanaka, ndakanzwa kusuwa”. Anotaura nezvezvaanoda uye manzwiro ake. Haritauri zvakaitika kare, rinonyanya kutaura nezvezvino uye nezveramangwana. Tinoronga pamwe chete nemudiwa. Kudzivisa kushoropodza, kutsvinya, kutsiva, makuhwa, kurwisa, kunyadziswa uye kunyadziswa.

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II. Chasing Partner

Anoda humwe hunhu hwepabonde kubva kune mumwe wake, sekunge chikamu chechibvumirano chisina kunyorwa, chaanofanira kuita pasina zvisungo pese paanokumbirwa kuita kudaro, uye muchimiro chaachaunzwa kwaari pasina mukana wekuramba, izvo - kana zvikaitika. - ichatsoropodzwa uye inoshandiswa nenzira iyo inoshanduka kuva kurambwa uye kumukonzera, somuenzaniso, mhosva. Muukama hwemumba, mudiwa akadaro anoshandisa kukurumidza, kuraira kutaurirana kana kumanikidza kunyengedza (kuronga zvimwe zviito, semuenzaniso, kufamba pamwe chete pasina mufungo weumwe munhu) uye anoda kutora chikamu mazviri, nepo achishandisa kushorwa nekupokana kudiki. Anoshandisa cynicism uye sarcasm. Mudiwa akabatwa nekubatwa kwakadaro anonzwa mhirizhonga yemukati pamusoro pehunhu hwake, hunhu uye kuzvimiririra, anonzwa kunyimwa kodzero dzesarudzo uye sarudzo, dzakaderedzwa kuita basa remunhu akabatwa.

III. Kurambwa nemudiwa

Anoshandisa manomano uye anoramba pachena uye pasina kurova kwehana, pasinei nemanzwiro emumwe munhu. Muhurukuro dzake, anoita “kutendeseka kunorwadza,” achiisa makadhi ose patafura uye asingaregi mashoko anorwadza. Anotaura zvinhu zvose zvakananga, kazhinji nenzira iyi achishandura mutoro wezviito zvake kune mumwe wake, achiramba aine hana yakachena. Mune maonero ake, ane iyo inonzi "crystal character", kureva kuti, anozviona sekufamba kwakakwana, kufanirwa kwemunhu.

IV. Recidivist shamwari

Ndinoroora nevakadzi (kana varume) kana kuroora ndaroorazve uye zvinopetwa kakawanda. Izvi zvinokonzerwa nekufunganya uye kusada kwakawanda kusangana nematambudziko ehukama. Nokudaro, kazhinji mudiwa akadaro anoramba zvakajeka kana kuti anoparadza ukama padanho rechitatu (verenga :), zvishoma kazhinji pane yechitanhatu.

V. Partner - waunoshanda naye kubva munharaunda yepabonde

Hupenyu hwake hwepachedu hunowanzouya kune zvepabonde. Uku ndiko kufarira kwayo kukuru, kukosha uye chinangwa pachayo. Kutarisa kwake kwakanangana nenyaya dzekukunda kwepabonde, fungidziro uye zvishuwo. Anonyatso kutendeseka nemumwe wake, achirondedzera zvakaitika kare uye achimuisa kune chinzvimbo chepabonde shamwari uye kazhinji zvimwe zvinokurudzira.

VI. musikana wekununura

Munhu anoratidzirwa nemhando iyi yemudiwa achatarisira ruponeso kubva kumatambudziko ake ose, achiona maari chete mushonga wemamiriro ake asina kunaka. Uye saka, somuenzaniso, anogona kutsvaga murume achamupa pfungwa yekuchengeteka (somuenzaniso, mari), kuzadza kusava kwake kana manzwiro ekusurukirwa. Anogonawo kutsvaga kugamuchirwa kubva kwaari, somuenzaniso, chirwere chake, achitenda kuti iye pachake haakwanisi izvi. Anogonawo kutsvaga zororo kubva kumhuri yake, basa, nzvimbo yekugara, chitarisiko chake, nezvimwe.

VII. ane hanya mukoti

Anogara achiziva uye anogara achinzwa zvatinoda. Kazhinji anozviziva nokukurumidza uye zviri nani kupfuura zvatinoita. Ari pakufona kwese, anogara akagadzirira uye akagadzirira kubatsira. Achasiya mabasa ake ese kuti agutse, agutse uye aruramise zvinotarisirwa zvemumwe wake, achimupa zvese zvinodiwa kukuvadza kunyaradzwa kwake uye kunyangwe hutano. Anogona kutozvirasikirwa kuti azadzise zvishuwo zvemumwe wake nemhuri. Anova anodzivirira zvakanyanya uye ane hanya zvakanyanya.

XIII. Shamwari mumakore

Acharamba achiyemura mudiwa wake, sekunge ndiye nyeredzi huru yebhaisikopo uye munhu ega munyika. Anowedzeredza chiremera chake kusvika pamuganho wezvinogoneka uye zvisinganzwisisiki, achimubata semuchinda kubva mungano, anoda kupfaviswa nguva dzose, kupa zvipo, kutarisa uye kurumbidza. Kubva kumapato echitatu, haadi kunzwa shoko rimwe rakaipa pamusoro pake, uye paanonzwa, anozvifuratira zvachose, asingavatende uye achivaramba. Iye anofuratira uye anotsikirira zvinhu zvisingafadzi izvo zvisingaenderane nemufananidzo wake wemudiwa akakodzera.

IX. Muchinda (muchinda) uye datya

Munhu akadaro uye kuzviremekedza kwake uye mufaro unoenderana zvachose nemuchinda, uyo nekutsvoda kumwe chete anogona kumushandura kubva kune frog kuva muchindakadzi. Anotenda kuti pedyo naye chete ndiye achakwanisa kubudirira uye kuva mukadzi chaiye, akazara uye akabudirira - zvisati zvaitika, inongova grey mouse. Ari pasi pesimba rake, zvinoenderana nekutariswa uye nekurumbidzwa. Anonzwa achityisidzirwa nevamwe vakadzi, achiziva kuti kana akarasikirwa naye, achava musikana asina maturo zvakare, saka ane godo uye ane utsinye kune vamwe vakadzi (kana varume kana datya riri murume). Ane manzwiro ekugara ari kunze kwechinzvimbo uye kusachengeteka, uye anoedza kudzora hukama panguva yese.

X. Chikara...uye chakanaka

Murunako, chikara chinotsvaga chimiro, mukurumbira, kuyemura, kusaenzana uye pamusoro peavhareji. Mukadzi kubva paavhareji imba angave achitsvaga CEO ane mafuta chikwama; murume asina mwana, akagadzikana ari kutsvaka akarambwa kana kuti chirikadzi ine musha uye yakarera vana; musikana ane mwero kubva kumaruwa emurume anoshamwaridzana uye akasunungurwa kubva muguta. Muchidimbu, rudzi urwu rwemudiwa runotarisa kukosha kune mumwe munhu, iyo yaanogona kuisa mufuremu yegoridhe iyo inomupa kupenya uye kunobatsira.

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