Demisexuality - chii ichocho uye chakasiyana sei kubva kune asexuality

Demisexuality iko kunzwa kwekukwezvwa pabonde chero iwe uchiita hukama hwakasimba hwepfungwa. Izvi zvinoreva kuti demisexual inoda nguva uye kuvaka pfungwa yepedyo kuti unzwe chishuwo chekuve pedyo panyama. Chii chakakosha kuziva nezvazvo?

1. Ko demisexuality zvinorevei?

Demisexuality izwi remhando yezvepabonde inowira muchikamu chepfungwa sehterosexuality, bisexuality, uye ungochani. Uku kunzwa kukwezva pabonde chete kune vanhu vavane hukama hwakasimba navo. Saka zvinoreva kusanzwa kurovedza muviri pakutanga kwehukama. Kukakavadzana pabonde kunongoitika chete kana hukama hwacho huchinyanya kushushikana.

Kukwezva pabonde hausi mucherechedzo wekutanga kudanana nemunhu asina murume. Zvakanyanya kukosha kwaari kupfuura kukwezva kwemuviri ndeyemukati wemukati: hunhu uye hunhu. Zvakakosha kuyeuka kuti demisexuality haisi kutsauka kubva pane zvakajairwa, uye kazhinji chikamu chidiki chevanhu vanotambura nechiitiko ichi.

Concept kuita zvepabonde yakaonekwa munguva pfupi yapfuura. Yakatanga kushandiswa muna 2006. Izwi iri rakaumbwa neAsexual Visibility and Education Network, Aven) uye yakakurumbira pamasocial network.

Iyi pfungwa ichiri kukonzera manzwiro akawanda uye kukakavara. Vamwe vanhu vanofunga kuti zvitsva kuita zvepabondeuyo akavhara mukaha uripo pakati pekusangana pabonde nekuhura. Zvinodzikisirwa kana kurambwa nevamwe. Iri boka revanhu rinotenda kuti demisexuality izwi risingakoshi kune yakajairika maitiro kune hukama hwepedyo. Mushure mezvose, vanhu vazhinji, kupinda muukama hutsva, kutanga vanoda kusvika pakuziva mumwe wavo, uye vobva vatanga chiitiko chinonyangadza naye.

Zita rokuti demisexuality rinobva paizwi demi, kureva hafu. Nokuti demisexual hafu zvepabonde, hafu asexual. Sezvineiwo, hazvina basa kwaari kuti munhu waanotanga kudanana naye ari munhurume mumwe chete kana kuti akasiyana.

Kunzwa ndiko kwakakosha kukwezvwa mupfungwa kune mumwe munhu. Demisexuals vanofarira munhu wose. Ichi ndicho chikonzero munhu ane hupombwe achikwanisa kukudziridza hukama hunobudirira nevose vari vaviri munhu wechikadzi uye munhu wechikadzi, ane bisexual kana transgender.

2. Kuparara kwevarume nevakadzi kunozviratidza sei?

Demisexuals ndeavo vanoisa pamberi pehukama hwepfungwa pane kukwezvana kwemuviri kuti vanzwe kukwezva pabondeinofanira kutanga yavaka hukama hwakadzama. Zvamazvirokwazvo zvakasiyana nemazuva ose. Kazhinji kutanga kwehukama kukwezva zvepabonde, pahwaro hwekuti manzwiro anokura. Kuziva mumwe munhu munhu asiri demisexual anogona kunzwa kuda zvepabonde mukati memasekondi.

Demisexuality inoratidzwa nekushaikwa kwechido chepabonde pakutanga kwehukama. Kudikanwa kwekubatana kwemuviri kunogona kusamuka kutozosvikira hukama hwepfungwa hwave hunogutsa. Kusada kuita bonde kunogona kukonzereswa nekusazvifungira kana kunyanyofunga nezvekubatana mupfungwa.

Vanhu vepabonde havadi kutanga vaonana. Vanoda nguva yekunzwa vakabatana nemumwe munhu uye kuti vazive ivo kubva mukati. Kwavari, hazvinakidzi. kusangana pabonde (izvo zvinosanganiswa nemanzwiro anorema kwavari). Ivowo havana kujairana nepfungwa yekukwezva vanhu vausingazivi kana vanhu vachangosangana.

3. Demisexualism asexualism

Vanhu vepabonde vanowanzoonekwa sevanotonhora uye vasingadi kupinda muhukama hwepedyo hwerudo. Nekudaro, zvakakosha kusimbisa kuti demisexuality haina kufanana kuita zvepabondezvinoreva kutonhora kwepabonde uye kushaya chido chepabonde.

vanhu asexual vane hukama nevadyidzani, kuvaka hukama nekuvamisa kune sisitimu padanho renjere kana remanzwiro. Zvechokwadi havasanganisi ruchiva.

Demisexuals havana nyonganyonga libido. Zvavanofarira zvinongoenderana nehunhu hwepfungwa. Demisexuals, pasi pemamiriro akakodzera uye manzwiro akasimba, vanogona kushandura kutonhora kwavo kwekutanga kuve kuda kwekusangana kwenyama (secondary sex drive) Izvi zvinoreva kuti ivo havana hukama - kusvika kukwezva kwepabonde kwaonekwa uye vanove vanhu vepabonde.

Vanokwanisa kuona kunakirwa kwebonde. Vanongoda nguva yakawanda yekuzviita kupfuura vamwe. Ichi ndicho chikonzero demisexuality ichinzi iri pakati pakati pepabonde uye bonde.

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