Ngochani - ndivanaani uye kuti nzanga inovaona sei

Ngochani vakadzi ngochani. Zvisinei nekushivirira kuri kuita kusiyana kwevarume nevakadzi, dambudziko rerusarura kune ngochani nengochani richiripo. Vakadzi vaviri vari kufamba vakabatana maoko, kumbundirana kana kutsvodana pamberi pevanhu vachiri kunetsana, uye dzimwe nguva zvinotosemesa. Ngochani ndivanaani uye ndezvipi chokwadi pamusoro pavo?

1. Ndivanaani ngochani

Ngochani mukadzi anokwezva pabonde nevamwe vakadzi. Iri nehupombwe hwaanofungidzira ramangwana rakafanana. Anobata varume seshamwari, kwete vangangoroorana navo.

Izwi iri rinobva pazita Chitsuwa chechiGiriki cheLesboskwaigara nyanduri Sappho. Anonzi anonamatwa uye anonamatwa nevakadzi. MuchiPolish, izwi rekuti ngochani rinogamuchirwa pakati pengochani pachadzo, mukusiyana nengochani isina hunhu. Ngochani ingori mukadzi ane mafeelings, ari kudanana, kana kufarira mumwe mukadzi.

2. Ngochani nenzanga

Zvisinei, mafungiro evanhu vekuPoland kune ngochani dzakaomarara. Vese ngochani nengochani munharaunda dzinokonzeresa kukakavara kukuru, nekuti nzanga haina kujaira kudiwa paruzhinji nevarume vaviri kana vakadzi vaviri. Kazhinji ngochani dzinoonekwa se vakadzi vakuvara nevarumekuti vari kuedza kubhadhara kushayikwa kwemanzwiro mumunhu wepabonde rimwe chete.

Vanhu vanotenda zvakare kuti ngochani inotya kufambidzana nemurume kuti isarasikirwa nekutonga uye kuzvimiririra. Vanhu vakawanda vanotendawo izvozvo ngochani dzine hunhu hwakawanda hwechirume. Mafungiro erudzi urwu ndeokufungidzira nekuti chirevo chakadaro nemaonero haagone kushandiswa kune vese ngochani. Zvisinei, dzimwe nguva unogona kuona kuti dzimwe ngochani dzinopfeka, kuzvibata kana kugera vhudzi sevarume.

3. Hukama pakati pemukadzi nemukadzi

Kana ngochani mbiri dzechingochani dzichinge dzafunga kuva pamwechete, kazhinji vanogovana mabasa avo ekugarisana vasingazive. Mukuwedzera pakuva shamwari uye vadikani, mumwe wavo anowanzotora basa remurume muukama. Anova mugadziri mukuru wesarudzo uye zvakare anotora mabasa echirume zviri nyore, senge kugadzirisa kudiki kumba. Mumwe mudiwa, pane kudaro, nekusazvidira anowedzera kuzviisa pasi uye anoita seasina kusimba.

Zvechokwadi, izvi hazviitiki muukama hwose hwengochani. Kazhinji vaviri vakaroorana vane hunhu hwakanyanya, uye dzimwe nguva vese vanonyara. Zvakafanana nevarume vane ngochani - mumwe wevarume anogona kunge aine hunhu hwechikadzi, uye mavara evaviri anogona kunge akafanana.

4. Kodzero dzengochani

Vese ngochani nengochani havachakwanisa kuroora muPoland. Zvisinei, muWestern Europe, kuroorana kwengochani kunogona kuitwa munyika dzakawanda. Nyika idzi dzinosanganisira, semuenzaniso, Netherlands, France, Spain neBelgium. Ngochani vakaroorana havasati vabvumirwawo kurera vana. Ongororo dzinoratidza kuti veruzhinji havadi kutambira kuti ngochani dzinogona kurera vana. Zvisinei, ngochani dzinofarirawo kodzero iyi muWestern Europe. Ngochani dzinogona kutora mwana. MuPoland, zvisinei, hapana zviratidzo zvekuchinja kupi kwemutemo munguva pfupi iri kutevera kana zvasvika pakuroorana kwengochani uye kugamuchirwa kwevana.

5. Chokwadi nengano pamusoro pengochani

Kusvika nguva pfupi yadarika, ungochani hwaiverengerwa pazvirwere izvo vanhu vanoreurura kuti ingochani kana kuti ngochani vanomanikidzwa kurapwa. Zvisinei, pashure penguva yakati, nokuda kwezvikonzero zvokurapa, kuita zvepabonde kwakanga kusingabatanidzwi kubva pakurongwa kwezvirwere. Saizvozvovo, vanhu vazhinji munharaunda havaoni ngochani sedzinoda kurapwa, asi zvichiri kutariswa kutsauka pabonde.

Ingano yengochani dzekuti hunhu hwepabonde hunobva mukurerwa. Vanhu vazhinji vanotenda kuti musikana anodheererwa kana kukuvadzwa nomurume pamusha anova ngochani kana akura. Izvi zvinowanzopomerwa ngochani. unzenza zvingangoitika nekuti ungochani hunoonekwa sekutsauka kwepabonde. Zvisinei, ngochani zhinji dzakaroorana, kusanganisira ngochani, dzinovavarira kuva neukama hunofadza nomukadzi mumwe chete, sezvinoita varume nevakadzi vane mitezo yakasiyana.

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Katarzyna Bilnik-Baranska, MA

Certified psychologist uye murairidzi. Akapedza kudzidza kubva kuChikoro cheVarairidzi uye Varairidzi TROP Boka.