Mental gender - chii ichocho, kuumbwa kwevakadzi

Zvinogona kuita sekuti tine murume mumwe chete - mukadzi, murume. Iyi kupatsanurwa kwakapfava hakusi pachena kana uchifunga kuti vaongorori vanosiyanisa vanhukadzi gumi!

Mumwe nemumwe wedu ane: chromosomal (genotypic) bonde, gonadal sex, intragenital sex, yekunze bonde, phenotypic, hormonal, metabolic, social, brain uye pabonde zvepabonde.

1. Gender yepfungwa - chii?

Bonde repfungwa, murume kana mukadzi, rinoumbwa nenzanga netsika gender identity. Sekureva kweWorld Health Organisation, aya ndiwo mabasa, maitiro, zviito uye hunhu hwakagadzirwa nenzanga izvo nzanga iyi inoona zvakakodzera kune varume nevakadzi. Sezvineiwo, mazwi ekuti "hurume" uye "chikadzi" anoshandiswa kutsanangura zvinoonekwa zvine chekuita nevakadzi uye maitiro zvichienderana neagara aripo. Wese munhu muhuduku anodzidza tsananguro dzechikadzi uye murume munzanga yakapihwa - kuti mukadzi kana murume anofanira kutaridzika sei, ibasa ripi rekusarudza, nezvimwe. iwe nenyika.

2. Gender yepfungwa - kukura kwevakadzi

Kuchema kwokuti "musikana" kana kuti "mukomana" pakuzvarwa kwemwana kunogona kutorwa sekutanga kwekukanganisa kwezvakatipoteredza. Kubva panguva ino zvichienda mberi, mwana anorerwa maererano nemitemo yevarume nevakadzi inogamuchirwa munharaunda. Vasikana vachapfeka pink, vakomana nebhuruu. Zvisinei, mwana achangoberekwa haasi psychosexually kwaakarerekera, pesvedzero yemhoteredzo yepedyo iyo inozivisa achangozvarwa semunhu wemurume kana mukadzi haisi sarudzo. Miganhu yekuzivikanwa inotarwa nemasikirwo.

DzeBonde Masekete vanotanga kuumba nguva pfupi mushure mokuberekwa, zvichibva, pakati pezvimwe zvinhu, pakucherechedza. Kunyange zvazvo munhu wose achigadzira pfungwa pamusoro pezvinoreva kuva murume kana mukadzi nokuda kwekushandisa kwake, iyi mienzaniso inopesvedzerwa zvikuru nemhoteredzo yenzanga. Kunyangwe kuburikidza nemitambo yatinopa vana, tinovadzidzisa mamwe mabasa uye hukama. Nokutamba nezvidhori kumba, vasikana vanodzidza kuti basa ravo nderekutanga kutarisira vamwe. Kuvakomana, mitambo ine chekuita nekuongorora nzvimbo kana kugadzirisa matambudziko (mitambo yehondo, kupatsanura zvinhu zvidiki kana midziyo) inopihwa. Vanofanira kunge vane makore mashanu. chiziviso chechikadzi zvine chimiro. Kana kare, padanho re intrauterine, pakanga paine kuvhiringidzika mukati mekuita kwekusiyanisa kwepabonde, zvino panguva iyi yakaoma vanowedzera kana kupera simba. Pakazosvika makore mashanu, vana vanopinda muchikamu chinonzi "developmental sexism", iyo inozviratidza mukutamba chete nevana vepabonde rimwe chete, kusarudza matoyi, mitambo yakapiwa kune iyi. Kusiyanisa kwehutano hwevarume nevakadzi, pamwe nekugamuchirwa kwemabasa, kufambira mberi mukuita dzidzo, kunofanira kuwedzera zvishoma nezvishoma mukuyaruka, kusvika pazera rekukura. Izvo zvinosanganiswa nemapoka ehunhu uye repertoires ehunhu hunonzi kune varume kana vakadzi. Murume chaiye anofanira kuzvimiririra, kwete kunyanya manzwiro, akasimba, akasimba, anotonga. Hunhu hunoenderana nehukadzi mutsika dzedu rudo, hanya, kuteerera, kuzvipira, kubatsira, uye kuva nehanya. Musikana anotarisirwa kutevedzera muenzaniso uyu. Pane hunhu hunowanikwa zvakanyanya muvarume kana vakadzi, asi hapana hunhu hwepfungwa hunogona kuverengerwa kumunhukadzi mumwe chete.

Hazvigoneke zvakare kuziva nemazvo esainzi kuti chii chinonzi "chirume" kana "kazhinji mukadzi". Zvichida hatifanire kuganhurira kuzviratidzira ku“murume” kana kuti “mukadzi”? Stereotypes anogara ari kurerutsa, kusanganisira jenda, dzimwe nguva kuomesa musoro kutevera template kunounza kutambura kwakawanda. Vakadzi havasi boka rakafanana, sevarume, mumwe nemumwe munhu uye ane kodzero yenzira yake. Vakadzi vakawanda havangabvumirani nemashoko okuti chinangwa choupenyu hwavo ndechokutarisira vamwe. Havazvioniwo sevasina kusimba, vasinei, kana vakanaka zvekuva muzvinzvimbo zvehutungamiriri, kupinda mune zvematongerwo enyika, kana kuzvisarudzira hupenyu hwavo.

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Monsignor Anna Golan

Psychologist, kliniki sexologist.