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Varume vazhinji, vangave vasina kuroora kana kuti vakatoroora, vanorota vachirara nevakadzi vaviri. Dzimwe nguva vanofungidzira kurara nemumwe wavo uye mukadzi mumwe kana kupfuura.

Tarisa vhidhiyo: "Zvinotaridzika uye Zvepabonde"

1. Barika

Zvinotendwa kuti varume vane barika nemasikirwo avo. Izvi zvinoreva kuti vanowanzofunga nezvepabonde uye saka vanoda kuita rudo kakawanda sezvinobvira uye nevakadzi vakawanda. Zvisinei, fungidziro dzavo hadziwanzozadzikiswa, sezvo vakadzi vakawanda vanoyevedza vanenge vasingasviki kwavari. Kazhinji ivo vatove mune imwe mhando yehukama kana vavanoshamwaridzana navo vari kuvakanganisa zvinobudirira kubva mukuitwa kwezvese. zvishuwo zvepabonde.

Kazhinji varume vanofungidzira kuita zvepabonde nemunhu waanoshanda naye, waaimbova shamwari yake, muvakidzani, mutambi wenhau anozivikanwa, nyanzvi yezvinonyadzisira, mudzidzisi, mutorwa kubva mubhazi. Ivo vakabatana ne eroticism, kusagutsikana pabonde, kutsveyamisa, unzenza uye ruzivo rwepabonde.

2. Sei varume vachirota katatu?

Kazhinji kazhinji, fungidziro pamusoro pevatano navakadzi vaviri kana kuti vanopfuura dzinobva mukudikanwa kwokuwedzera kuzviremekedza, kusimbisa urume hwomunhu, uye kuwedzera kuzviremekedza kwomunhu pabonde. Chimwe chikonzero chido. siyanisa hupenyu hwako hwepabonde kana kuwedzera kwekunzwa kwepabonde kana muitiro wacho wapinda pabonde nemudiwa wako wenguva dzose. Zvinoitikawo kuti fungidziro pamusoro pematatu anoonekwa semugumisiro wekutya kuripo: "Ndine chokwadi chekuti ndinogona kugutsa mumwe wangu zvizere?" Saka kana izvi zvikaitwa zvinobudirira nevakadzi vaviri, kuzviremekedza kwemurume kunokwira.

Zvinoitika kuti zviroto zvekusangana pabonde nevakadzi vanopfuura mumwechete dzimwe nguva zvinoratidza zvakadzvinyirirwa zvido zvekurara, kuratidza, narcissistic, ungochani uye kunyange sadomasochistic maitiro. Zvisinei, kududzira kwavo kusina kujeka hakusi basa riri nyore uye rinoda kunyatsoongorora hupenyu hwepabonde hwemunhu uye kunzwisisa kwakakwana kweunhu hwake.

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Anna Beous


Psychologist, psychotherapist, mudzidzisi wega.