Sexual Matching - Ndeapi mazinga ekusangana pabonde?

Kutanga kwese kwehukama chinhu chikuru chisingazivikanwi. Kusvirana musangano wevadyidzani, kazhinji unosiyana muhunhu hwemhando iyi yehunhu, ruzivo, kurerwa uye hunhu.

Kuwana kuenderana kwepabonde idambudziko rakakura uye kubudirira kukuru, uye panguva imwechete ndiyo hwaro hwekuenderera mberi nekugara pamwe chete. Kuita zvepabonde kunowedzera mukana kukura kwerudo uye inounza mamwe mavara kune grey - dzimwe nguva - pakati pevhiki. Ndeapi matanho ekuenderana pabonde?

1. Gender Compliance - Matanho

Unogona kudoma here? mazinga akakodzera pabonde - zvemuviri, zverudo, zvemanzwiro, zvekutaura uye kukosha.

1.1. Bonde Kusvirana - Physical Level

Kunyanya kugadzirisa pabonde maererano nehunhu hwepabonde uye pfungwa yekuteerera yekuteererana. Mukuwedzera, zvakakosha kukwezva kune mumwe nemumwe, kushuva uye kubvuma nyama yako. Panguva yebonde chimiro chemuviri ndikowo kuwirirana kwekuita zvepabonde uye mutual orgasm. Vamwe vakaroorana vanowana iyi nhanho yekugadziriswa kwepabonde kubva pakutanga, vamwe kuburikidza nekudzidza zvishoma nezvishoma.

1.2. Sexy match - erotic uye visceral level

Iyi nhanho yekukodzera pabonde ndeyekuonana se "favorite", "ideal" mhando dzechirume kana dzechikadzi. Izvi mutual passion chitarisiko, mararamiro, mafambiro, pamwe chete nehunhu hwepfungwa, kuseka, etc. Kuburikidza nekugadzirisa zvepabonde munzvimbo idzi, chido chakasimba uye nokudaro kugutsikana kubva pakuva pamwe chete kunogona kumutswa.

Intuitive Level yeSexual Compliance zvinoreva kunzwirana tsitsi. Ndiko kugona kutarisira zvinotarisirwa nemumwe munhu. Izvi zvinoitika pasina kushandisa mazwi. Manzwiro akadaro anowanzoitika kune vanhu vane hanya uye vanotungamira pfungwa dzavo kwete kune zvavanoda chete, asiwo kune zvakaitika kune mumwe. Kunzwisisa padanho iri rekunyorerana pabonde kunogadzira mukana wekubatana kwakasimba. Izvi kudyidzana, kureva, kuisa pfungwa pane zvakanaka zvemumwe munhu.

1.3. Bonde Kusvirana - Emotional Level

Zvikasadaro, iyi nhanho yekuchinjika pabonde inogona kutsanangurwa seyakanyanya mamiriro, mamiriro emanzwiro, kana chiitiko chakafanana. Iyi nhanho yakafanana yekusimba uye akasiyana emanzwiro anowanikwa. Kwete nguva dzose manzwiro ekunzwa mazinga zvakafanana.

Semuenzaniso, kune mumwe munhu, chiitiko che orgasm chinofananidzwa nerudo ecstasy kana nirvana, kune imwe ingori mamiriro ekugutsikana kuri pakati nepakati. Zvisinei, muukama hurefu uye hunobudirira, nekufamba kwenguva, vanobatana vanobatana, uye nyika dzavo dzepfungwa, chaizvoizvo, kuenzanisa, kureva kuti, kufambidzana kwepabonde kunokura.

1.4. Bonde Match - Verbal Level uye Values

Pachivanhu chedu danho rekutaura rekuenderana pabonde zvinosuwisa kuti haina budiriro. Izvi zvinonyanya kukonzerwa nekushaikwa kwemazwi akakodzera ezvepabonde. Zvinogona kutaurwa kuti tingave tine mazwi ehunyanzvi akatorwa zvakananga kubva mumabhuku ereferensi kana zvinyorwa zvesainzi, kana kuti tinoshandisa mazwi anonyadzisira uye echinyakare. Naizvozvo, vanhu vazhinji vanokuwana kwakaoma kutaura pamusoro pezvavakasangana nazvo pabonde.

Matambudziko padanho iri rekuchinja pabonde anogona zvakare kunzi kukurukura panguva yebonde uye nhaurirano dzakadzama dzechinyorwa chekukurukurirana (nezvezvinzvimbo zvakakodzera pamubhedha, mazwi ekutaura, nezvimwewo), izvo zvinogona kunyima vanobatana mhepo yehukama hwepedyo, chakavanzika uye chinonaka. Kubatana kwekutaura pabonde ichiri dambudziko guru kune vakawanda vakaroorana.

Gender kuenzanisa padanho rezvikoshero zvinangwa zvakafanana uye zvinoreva kusangana pabonde. Kana vaviri vakaroorana vachibatanidza zvepabonde nerudo, kufara pamwe chete uye kukura kwevanhu, zvinogona kutaurwa kuti achavapa kukosha kwakafanana. Bonde rinogonawo kubatanidzwa chete nekunakidzwa, kugutsikana kwezvido zvako, kana kuti kuzadzika kwezvishuvo.

Padanho rakadzama, kugadzirisa pabonde inzira yekutaura, rudo, uye kubatana. Zvakadzika chiyero chechiitiko chepabonde, kunowedzera kukwirira kwehutano hwepabonde pakati pevadiwa.

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Anna Beous

Psychologist, psychotherapist, mudzidzisi wega.